For Us

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It’s always been us and never them

Us who fed, bathed, and clothed

Us who comforted by any means necessary

Literally using our bodies to bring about riches and gold

It’s always been us who said, “Baby, it’s okay.” Even when it wasn’t

Loved babies more than our own at times

Loved when love was denied to us

Bore the pains inflicted by others just as much without a, “Baby, it’s gonna be okay,” in return

Us who raised generations that walked away with shame in their eyes not understanding the depth of the deprived states our souls stayed in order to give them life and that more abundantly

Us gave till there was none left to give

But not anymore

Cause free ain’t never been free

And free is often discounted when it is given so effortlessly, so selflessly

As if it’s value is only equated in monetary terms

For if it was, they could never afford us

 

Now

Us give to us freely first

For only we know and appreciate the sweat equity found in our love, our actions, our time

This time Anna Mae is eating the cake ‘cause she baked it and she chose to partake

“Y’all don’t worry your pretty little heads none,

What’s in the cake is in the crumbs too”

But this cake right here, this cake is for us

7 responses

  1. Lorraine Avatar
    Lorraine

    Hi E, This is a great conversation piece with girls that will become women, and women building stronger women. May God Continue To Bless You!

    1. Ifetayo Nellons Avatar

      Thanks!

  2. Patrice Avatar

    I ❤️ It! Thx for sharing.
    One question, how do we/us move forward knowing this truth; in other words, will it always be just us? I’m curious to know your thoughts! Thx.

    1. Ifetayo Nellons Avatar

      The idea is we must remember that we come first and by making sure we are alright, by default those we come in connect will be too. A fulfilled woman is a great wife, mother, sister, lover, employee, business owner and all the things. Being fulfilled makes us attractive others and motivates others. But too often we are not valued enough so we have to do for ourselves first.

  3. Gloria Walters Avatar
    Gloria Walters

    Okay we need this to done in a spoken word setting, who do you have in mind to bring this to visual and verbal life ?

    1. Ifetayo Nellons Avatar

      It’s funny you said this because I used to do spoken word all the time. It’s something to think about!

  4. Gabriel Frost Avatar

    I appreciate how powerfully you express self-love and reclaiming what’s rightfully ours.

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Ama Ndlovu explores the connections of culture, ecology, and imagination.

Her work combines ancestral knowledge with visions of the planetary future, examining how Black perspectives can transform how we see our world and what lies ahead.

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